Healer role

Please do share your experince regarding the healer role :
- build & stats;
- items;
- pve & pvp;
- leveling;
- weapons;
- skills;
- tips & tricks for newbies .

This caracter isn't for pvp (ck is suck).
You are a heal(er), you need to be strong with your buff and heal first time.
You have only to put on str and dex.
You have more points to put and you don't know where to put them ???

Cons is very hard to make it high 2points for each 1 cons is to much so can you use cons if you want but my opinion is to have care about your def with anti warrior and nuker banner (warrior banner is useless for you) so can you use white banner (with cons if i remember well) and red banner.

Why to don't use blue banner and double banner ? Becouse you don't have what to do with them, you aren't pvp player or a ks character for boss except buff and heal.
But if you want a little bit more damage can you use them but with one gloves +15 and bboe can you make more damage my opinion.